Showing posts with label LOVE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LOVE. Show all posts
Tuesday, 17 March 2015
Does your girlfriend control conversations, attempt to prove you wrong and constantly rewrite past events
to make her point? Does she force you into agreeing with her and threaten to leave you if you don't do as she says? Do you constantly find yourself on the defensive, having to
explain all your actions and words? Does she break down your
self-confidence little by little until you begin
to believe you're nothing without her? If so, you might be dating a controlling woman.
These over-dominant women believe that men and relationships should run no way but their way and will even convince their men that it's for their own good. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these 4 tell-tale signs below, you may very well be in the hands of an overbearing, emotional bully and unless you like having your life steered for you and your opinions made by someone else, it might be time to reconsider the relationship.
1. She makes your decisions for you
Controlling women will define you by telling you what you think and feel. They'll tell you when you can go out and when you can invite the guys over to watch the game.These manipulative women believe that they should be able to make every decision in your life and will explode into long tirades when you do not behave in line with their plans. They believe that they know what's best for their men and will even go as far as selecting the clothes you wear, choosing what movies you'll watch and deciding what you should or shouldn't eat.
2. She always has to be right
Controlling women must be right at all times. These women are never wrong, and everything is always your fault. They constantly use lines such as "I didn’t do that," "I didn’t say that," "I don't know what you’re talking about," and "It wasn’t that bad."These women control men by shaming them for their thoughts, actions and every time they voice an opinion. They never try to understand your views and will constantly threaten to abandon you, end the relationship or give you the cold shoulder if you don’t play by their rules.
3. She tells you how to spend your money
A controlling woman will tell you that you're spending way too much money on things you enjoy, like drinks and eats with your pals, and suggests you save up for more important things, like her new wardrobe. Before you know it, she'll eventually become in complete control of your credit cards and your pay check.
4. She keeps constant tabs on you
A controlling woman will call you 10-15 times per day to keep track on what you're doing, who you're with and where you're going next with each call. She also expects you to call her multiple times a day and demands to be by your side as often as possible.
These over-dominant women believe that men and relationships should run no way but their way and will even convince their men that it's for their own good. If your girlfriend exhibits any of these 4 tell-tale signs below, you may very well be in the hands of an overbearing, emotional bully and unless you like having your life steered for you and your opinions made by someone else, it might be time to reconsider the relationship.
1. She makes your decisions for you
Controlling women will define you by telling you what you think and feel. They'll tell you when you can go out and when you can invite the guys over to watch the game.These manipulative women believe that they should be able to make every decision in your life and will explode into long tirades when you do not behave in line with their plans. They believe that they know what's best for their men and will even go as far as selecting the clothes you wear, choosing what movies you'll watch and deciding what you should or shouldn't eat.
2. She always has to be right
Controlling women must be right at all times. These women are never wrong, and everything is always your fault. They constantly use lines such as "I didn’t do that," "I didn’t say that," "I don't know what you’re talking about," and "It wasn’t that bad."These women control men by shaming them for their thoughts, actions and every time they voice an opinion. They never try to understand your views and will constantly threaten to abandon you, end the relationship or give you the cold shoulder if you don’t play by their rules.
3. She tells you how to spend your money
A controlling woman will tell you that you're spending way too much money on things you enjoy, like drinks and eats with your pals, and suggests you save up for more important things, like her new wardrobe. Before you know it, she'll eventually become in complete control of your credit cards and your pay check.
4. She keeps constant tabs on you
A controlling woman will call you 10-15 times per day to keep track on what you're doing, who you're with and where you're going next with each call. She also expects you to call her multiple times a day and demands to be by your side as often as possible.
Secretaries play an
imperative role in any organisation.
They are responsible for the smooth running of the secretarial and clerical
duties; they make and cancel appointments for their boss, handle telephone
calls and pass on the relevant information to the concerned authorities. Most
secretaries are gorgeous and nice looking.
They have this body that can make a corpse resurrect. But today, find out why
you should never marry an office secretary.
Bonk bosses
It is on record that a great number of the secretaries bonk their bosses from
office on a daily basis.
Most of them prefer what’s commonly known as ‘carpet bombing’. Some bosses use
weird tricks to lure these gals into sex.
The trick is, they give these girls assignments that take many hours to finish.
By the time she is done, it is late in the night and the two are alone in the
office. What is done thereafter, your guess is as good as mine. Blow jobs and
quickies are their favourites.
Don’t keep secrets
Secretaries know many of their bosses’ secrets.
They know where the boss normally hangs out and people close to him. They also
know the ups and downs of their masters.
If she wakes up on the long side of the bed, you know you will be in trouble.
This is because she will spill all that she knows about you and you will become
a laughing stock. Briefly, she will always hold you at ransom.
One day, a respected boss went to office with unzipped trousers. When he
entered, his secretary realized that the man’s ka-whopper was out, dangling
like a mad fish. She then told him, “Please sir, you have left the garage at
home open.” But the boss did not bother to ask what she meant.
He entered his office and as he was sitting down, he realized that his whopper
was on a show. He then zipped up and went back to the secretary and asked her
thus: “When you looked in the garage, did you see a Mercedes Benz or a Ferrari
parked?” But she answered: “I only saw a DMC Kikumi.” The rest, as they say, is
history.
Wolokoso Queens
They are always talking about things that don’t concern them. And if she knows
anything about your wife, she will not keep quiet.
They are always envious of their boss’ wives; they despise and demean them.
They even leak some of their colleagues’ secrets to their boss in order to gain
favours and promotions.
Busy schedule
Secretaries are always busy in office. She will not leave the work station
unless she has done all her boss’ work. If you marry her, you will not get
enough time with her. She will all the time be married to the office.
Expensive to maintain
They always want to look good and like a lot of make-up to look beautiful.
They need nice clothes to look sexy and please their bosses. If you are a broke
guy, you will not please her. They like being artificial and to maintain them,
you need to rob the nearest bank.
Generous
Secretaries are very generous with their ‘goods’. What she needs is just a
plate of chips and chicken, plus a bottle of tusker. Most secretaries have
slept with everyone at their respective offices, including the cleaners and tea
boys.
Very Rude
It is critical for a secretary to possess both verbal and non verbal
communication skills.
However, a good number of them don’t posses these qualities. They are
antisocial and will always dictate on who should see the boss.
If she is not in her moods or if she has not liked your face, she will not
allow you to see the boss. They can even lie to you that he is out of the
country when you actually saw him a few minutes ago in the compound.
Broke
Most of the secretaries earn peanuts for salary. They cannot cater for their
daily maintenance and depend on tips from their bosses and other bonkmates at
the office.
Uneducated
Most of the secretaries are school dropouts who are not so literate. They don’t
easily comprehend whatever they are told. Some of them stopped in class 7 but
because of their soupy faces, they managed to get jobs. Simply put, they are
dense and if you marry her, she will bear you half baked children.
If you want sharp children in the future, don’t waste your time with a
secretary. They are green about current issues. For example, the other day I
was talking to some one about the English Premier League and she was like ‘today
Man U is playing against Manchester United.’
There are so many educated gals out there and I don’t see any reason why one
should go for a mere secretary.
Inferiority complex
Secretaries have a very big weakness. They always look at themselves as being
some of the low rank staff in an organization.
But on a good note, if you are interested in a one night stand, secretaries are
the best alternative.
The writer is a
researcher and counsellor.
DISCLAIMER: The views expressed above are personal opinions of
the writer.
The best advice you
can ever get is not from your followers but your opposition. When it
comes to relationships, as a man, the best advice you could ever get can never
come from your male-friends, but from women. Here’s their advice; from
them to you.
1. Women are not interested in your money: Gold digging is for lazy girls-that's all. Believing that every other woman you meet is after your money is a sign that you are still dating girls, not ladies. If you don't want women thinking that you are after their pants, then you should stop assuming that they are after your wallet.
1. Women are not interested in your money: Gold digging is for lazy girls-that's all. Believing that every other woman you meet is after your money is a sign that you are still dating girls, not ladies. If you don't want women thinking that you are after their pants, then you should stop assuming that they are after your wallet.
2. Respect comes
before love: In simpler terms this means, never dismiss what she
has to say, what she likes, how much she knows or how she thinks. I've
watched men ignore or make fun of their girlfriends or spouses in other
people's presence-nothing hurts as much! By her being your partner, it
means that you got to be by her side in public, and maybe correct her when it's
just the two of you.
3. Of course
there's the one, but can never be a Miss Perfect: You'll find
men in their 30's, 40's and even 50's bragging how good bachelorhood is good,
when they are actually dying of loneliness, junk food and long hours at work as
they wait for the Miss Perfect. The only way you can land a Miss Perfect
is if you are Mr. Perfect yourself. However, there are loads of Miss
Rights around who are not interested in Mr. Perfects but Mr. Rights.
4. You can't be a
player now and a keeper later: They say, they are single and
free to mingle, but when the right woman comes around, they'll change. No
lady is ever interested in a player (maybe when she's drunk and want to act a
fool). So, so long as you choose to be a player, don't even think of
hooking up with a serious lady.
5. There's a
difference between being a man and being a gentleman: Boys as
young as 3 years call themselves men. Men are everywhere but it’s the
gentlemen that ladies like to be with. A gentleman whom you can talk to,
respect and respect you back, hang out with, have fun with, be real with and
establish, build and cement a relationship with.
6. Quality rules;
quantity dictates: It's okay to look, but it’s another thing to
ogle. Unfortunately most men are mesmerised and blinded by looks, with
only a few taking notice of a woman who is smart, intelligent, friendly and
normal. A good woman will easily let you go if you dismiss her at the
expense of another with better looks and lesser brains. And once she's
gone, it'll be too late for you to have her back since, once a woman is fed up
with you, there's nothing you can do to change her mind.
7. Generalising: I
have had many men ask me, “Why do you women..." The sound of that
question almost annoys me. Just because a few other women you know do
something doesn't mean that every other woman on this planet does it. I
always recommend the use of 'SOME' or 'MOST' but never 'YOU.'
8. Stop
assuming-TALK: He'll say, "I don't have to tell her that I
like her/love her...she knows that I do." How lame is that? In
the ladies' dictionary, this is an act of cowardice. For this very
reason, so many ladies are in relationships that they have no idea whether they
are just being friends, friends with benefits, secret lovers, companions or
potential couples. Words makes all the change to a woman, and without
them, you may as well forget that there is something going on between the two
of you.
We all know women are pretty, soft, sexy, and attractive but
have you ever imagined another side to them, a slightly unkempt one at that?
Actually, women can be quite crazy; they are capable of doing things that make
men go red in the face such as preferring chocolates over sex and so on.
Women are psychologically and physically different from men.
They hide age, weight, feelings, qualities, and do things that men have never
thought of doing. On that note, we explore some funny, weird facts about women
that are lesser-known.
Women always carry their handbags around: Men must have not noticed this,
but women always carry their handbags or purses. They feel awkward if they
don’t carry anything in their hands. And we really don’t know what they have
inside their bags!
Women never have anything to wear: Give them thousands of bucks; they
can spend the whole sum on shopping. And still complain that they haven’t got
anything to wear. The fact is that most of the clothes or accessories in their
closets are either one-time-wear or not even that.
Women don’t bathe everyday: Not all women bathe everyday, no
matter how much they profess cleanliness and hygiene. They rely on deodorants
and perfumes to smell good.
Women eat a hell lot: When men are around, women act like they eat
too little. But when left alone she can polish off a full size pizza. Now, we
know why women always talk about food and recipes.
Why women love TV serials/Soap operas so much: We know most of the TV serials
look so stupid and funny but women still love them. Probably they just want to
feel that there are people worse off than them. Now you should know why a
‘Kabanana’ kind of show was so famous.
After sex women still love to be kissed: Men always feel tired and prefer
to sleep after sex, but women don’t. They like to talk, fool around, and kiss
each other. For a great relationship, men should take note of this.
Others
-Women worry about their looks while having sex
-Women love to bargain, even if they don’t like the buy
-Around seventy per cent women would rather have chocolate than
sex
-Women don’t like another woman to wear the same dress
-Women mature much faster than men
-Women can spend a whole day before the mirror
-Women don’t need sex as often as men do. Sex is more about
emotions for women.
Scrap the mystic ball and tarot cards; Mr. Right is not going to
be found in a conjurer’s tent. If you want to find the one, take a look at
these top tips and you’ll be sure to find that tall, dark, handsome stranger in
no time:
Ditch the perfume
Although
smelling like flowers, honey and all things fruity is great, have you ever
thought what it’s doing for your love life? One study rounded up a group of
brave guys and asked them to sniff some ladies’ T-shirts. The study found that
men’s testosterone levels shot up when they smelt the T-shirt of ovulating
women.
So, if
you douse yourself in heavy scent throughout the month, maybe ditch it for a
few days when you’re halfway through your cycle. Your natural smell will work
in its place. If you really hate the thought of going out without a dab or two,
you could always use the body wash version of your perfume. That way the smell
is still mild enough not to put off horny guys, but you’ve got the smell you
love.
Look at your dad
We
don’t blame you if you feel a little freaked out when we say look at your dad.
We know that your dad is never going to feature highly on your ‘To-Date List’
(at least we hope not girls!). However, it turns out that we’re all looking for
someone like our parents.
Apparently,
when we meet people, we are naturally drawn to those that look and smell like
our parents. Psychotherapist Elayne Savage says familiarity is one of the main
reasons why people choose a parent-like partner. So, if you’re scouting
for the perfect man, we suggest you take a trip home first to take a look at
what you need to be searching for.
Hold onto him
Some
people have no trouble finding a man, but when it comes to the more serious
post-infatuation stage something goes wrong. If that sounds familiar, it may be
due to your chemical biology. When we fall in love there are three main
chemical phases. First comes lust (which is driven by testosterone and
estrogen), then comes attraction (a stage instigated by neuro-transmitters
called monomamines), then comes the attachment phase.
The key
hormone in the attachment phase is oxytocin. Oxytocin promotes bonding in
adults and it is released when adults are being intimate. It is thought that
the more sex a couple has the deeper the bond. So, maybe a night or two more
under the covers will help you stay strong with the next guy.
Go shopping
When
you’re single people always tell you to “get out there”. You’re told to get
involved in things you never normally would, like walking clubs, craft sessions
or language classes. Although it is good to meet new people, do you really want
to find the man of your dreams whilst you’re wearing hiking socks? We thought
not.
The
message behind this advice is good though; you need to meet guys in order to
find one. However, we suggest you keep to your normal routine and just be more
aware of who is around you. Food shopping is the perfect place to meet lots of
different men, and you can tell an awful lot about their life by looking inside
their trolleys – if they’ve got two types of hair conditioner then walk on by.
Look in the mirror
It may
sound odd, but looking in the mirror is the perfect way to find your ideal man.
Studies have found that married couples tend to look quite similar. So, have a
good hard look at your own facial features so that when you’re next out you can
target those men that look like you. Those couples who do look like one another
have also been found to have lower cases of child abuse in their families and
are less selfish.
However,
studies have also found that couples not only have similar facial features,
other parts of their bodies correlate too. Researchers found that many married
couples had similar: metabolic rates, ear lobe lengths, ear size, neck
circumferences and middle finger lengths. Get out those tape measures girls,
it’s time to pull.
Getting married is often the biggest event of a person’s
life. It means being committed to one person for the rest of your life, and
while there are plenty of good reasons not to get
married, there are many
good reasons FOR marriage.
If you're not sure that you are ready to take that
big step, these five solid reasons to get married will help you decide.
1. Marriage means more sexual fulfilment
While single guys are excited by having one-night stands and the thrill of constantly chasing different women, married men are home having sex with their wives. Married men have more sex than single men, have a better feel for their partner's bodies, have an absence of guilt, are more aware of their partner's fantasies and report a higher rate of sexual satisfaction than single counterparts who find themselves bouncing from girl to girl.
2. Marriage gives you a legal platform to start a family
While it's pretty obvious you don't need to be married to have kids, but marriage is still the the most stable and secure environment in which to start a family and keeping your bloodline going.
3. Marriage can provide more financial benefits
There are numerous financial benefits associated with marriage to include tax brеаkѕ, health insurance plans аnԁ οthеr financial benefits. In a marriage where both partners are working, it can be easier to afford the things you could never afford on your own; it means a better home, a better car, a better vacation, etc...Like it or not, society is designed to make life easier for married couples.
4. Marriage can improve your health
Research shows that men who are married engage in fewer risky behaviors, like binge drinking or dangerous hobbies and careers. Married men also eat healthier, visit the doctor more often and may have better immune systems as well, either from support or from nagging to monitor things like blood pressure, cholesterol, weight, etc….
5. Marriage gives you a higher rate of happiness
A good marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Many studies have shown that men are higher achieving when they are married, and having a good wife can bring out the best in you, challenge you to be the best version of yourself and help you learn the true meaning of self-sacrifice and compromise.
1. Marriage means more sexual fulfilment
While single guys are excited by having one-night stands and the thrill of constantly chasing different women, married men are home having sex with their wives. Married men have more sex than single men, have a better feel for their partner's bodies, have an absence of guilt, are more aware of their partner's fantasies and report a higher rate of sexual satisfaction than single counterparts who find themselves bouncing from girl to girl.
2. Marriage gives you a legal platform to start a family
While it's pretty obvious you don't need to be married to have kids, but marriage is still the the most stable and secure environment in which to start a family and keeping your bloodline going.
3. Marriage can provide more financial benefits
There are numerous financial benefits associated with marriage to include tax brеаkѕ, health insurance plans аnԁ οthеr financial benefits. In a marriage where both partners are working, it can be easier to afford the things you could never afford on your own; it means a better home, a better car, a better vacation, etc...Like it or not, society is designed to make life easier for married couples.
4. Marriage can improve your health
Research shows that men who are married engage in fewer risky behaviors, like binge drinking or dangerous hobbies and careers. Married men also eat healthier, visit the doctor more often and may have better immune systems as well, either from support or from nagging to monitor things like blood pressure, cholesterol, weight, etc….
5. Marriage gives you a higher rate of happiness
A good marriage offers a man the kind of stability and support that allows him to succeed in all other aspects of life. Many studies have shown that men are higher achieving when they are married, and having a good wife can bring out the best in you, challenge you to be the best version of yourself and help you learn the true meaning of self-sacrifice and compromise.
It is not uncommon to
look around and find strong, independent women who have chosen to stay single.
However, there are many beautiful and successful women who stay single not by
their own choice, but because of the behaviors they display that drive good men
away.
There are many factors that have led to why these women are single, but
the most significant ones are listed below.
1.
She's seeking "Prince Charming"
The most probable reason why highly eligible women are still single is that they created a set of unrealistic and unattainable characteristics that their partners should have. These women often limit their dating prospects, set themselves up for disappointment and pass up a lot of great guys in their search for the perfect man to be their knight in shining armor.
The most probable reason why highly eligible women are still single is that they created a set of unrealistic and unattainable characteristics that their partners should have. These women often limit their dating prospects, set themselves up for disappointment and pass up a lot of great guys in their search for the perfect man to be their knight in shining armor.
2. She's a drama queen
This type of woman is constantly on some sort of emotional
roller coaster and the good men they do attract are left exhausted with their
never ending whirlwind of emergencies and problems.
3. She's commitment phobic
She will seemingly form what looks like a lasting commitment to one man, but the commitment is usually only superficial. This type of woman will enter each relationship with a how long will this one last? frame of mind.
4. She's a control freak
It’s her way, or the highway. These women are never wrong, and when in a relationship, everything is always the man's fault.
5. She's desperate
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog--all on the first date.
6. She's a workaholic
She may be attractive and successful, and yet completely undateable because her life is all about work. If she is too busy to have any kind of social life outside of work, she's already married — to her job.
7. She's emotionally unstable
These women carry a tremendous amount of emotional baggage and will do things that are completely crazy, lacking rational thought and take actions with no thought about consequences.
8. She has too many insecurities
A woman whose life experiences have been a series of watching people damage each other rather than love each other tends to create a wall of defense with her emotions. Women like this begin to believe that no matter who they deal with in life, no man can be trusted.
9. She doesn't take care of herself
Women with poor hygiene, unflattering clothes, unkempt hair, being over or under weight, having unsightly body hair, bad teeth, and too much or too little make-up have very slim chances of keeping a man.
10. She's too easy
These women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate. The reality is that most men who are looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand do place great value on a woman's sexual restraint.
3. She's commitment phobic
She will seemingly form what looks like a lasting commitment to one man, but the commitment is usually only superficial. This type of woman will enter each relationship with a how long will this one last? frame of mind.
4. She's a control freak
It’s her way, or the highway. These women are never wrong, and when in a relationship, everything is always the man's fault.
5. She's desperate
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog--all on the first date.
6. She's a workaholic
She may be attractive and successful, and yet completely undateable because her life is all about work. If she is too busy to have any kind of social life outside of work, she's already married — to her job.
7. She's emotionally unstable
These women carry a tremendous amount of emotional baggage and will do things that are completely crazy, lacking rational thought and take actions with no thought about consequences.
8. She has too many insecurities
A woman whose life experiences have been a series of watching people damage each other rather than love each other tends to create a wall of defense with her emotions. Women like this begin to believe that no matter who they deal with in life, no man can be trusted.
9. She doesn't take care of herself
Women with poor hygiene, unflattering clothes, unkempt hair, being over or under weight, having unsightly body hair, bad teeth, and too much or too little make-up have very slim chances of keeping a man.
10. She's too easy
These women have failed to realize the important role their sexuality plays in finding a long-term mate. The reality is that most men who are looking for a serious relationship and not a one-night stand do place great value on a woman's sexual restraint.
Have you ever suspected your girlfriend to be cheating on
you at one point in your relationship? The thought of having a cheating
girlfriend is a concern that haunts many guys in relationships.
Women can be
just as unfaithful as men, so if you think that your girlfriend is doing
something unusual, try looking at these 5 signs on how to tell if she is
cheating on you.
1. She's engages in secretive behavior
Do you find strange numbers on her cell phone? Does she receive strange phone calls that are always "the wrong number?" Does she suddenly keep getting called into work at odd hours and often has to be away on business? If your answer is yes to these, then consider them as indicators that something is really going on. Other examples of secretive behaviors that indicate your girlfriend may be cheating are things like her no longer sharing her daily events with you, her suddenly deleting text messages from her cell phone and coming home with her hair messy, make-up smeared and clothes wrinkled followed by pausing and looking away when you ask where she's been.
2. Sudden changes in her appearance
Although there are girls who suddenly become interested with clothes, if you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, e.g., a drastically different hair style or a sudden desire to lose weight and get in shape or a sudden need to buy new, sexier items of clothing, the reason behind it could be to create a new look and feel more attractive to the man she is seeing behind your back.
3. She shows loss of interest
When she is with you, does it appear her thoughts are on someone else? Does she avoid talking to about the future of your relationship. Does she keep forgetting important dates, or other things about your relationship, that she used to think were "important" to both of you? The reason for this lapse in memory could be due to the fact she already has that someone else on her mind. If she used to be needy of your attention but suddenly doesn't need your company, constantly discusses some guy she works with or met endlessly with admiration and begins avoiding you, your calls, your texts, etc... there's a good chance your girlfriend is cheating.
4. She checks out other guys in public
Cheating girlfriends sometimes tend to flirt excessively with other men. Girls will typically only check out other guys for fun or to test you; however, if your girl has never been a “flirter” before, and now she suddenly is on a constant basis, it may be a bad sign for your relationship. If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and keeping deep eye contact with them while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she might actually be shopping around for another man.
5. Physical contact with you decreases
This one should be obvious. If a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else. So if your girlfriend begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact regularly without an obvious reason, this is one of the major signs that she wants to break up.
1. She's engages in secretive behavior
Do you find strange numbers on her cell phone? Does she receive strange phone calls that are always "the wrong number?" Does she suddenly keep getting called into work at odd hours and often has to be away on business? If your answer is yes to these, then consider them as indicators that something is really going on. Other examples of secretive behaviors that indicate your girlfriend may be cheating are things like her no longer sharing her daily events with you, her suddenly deleting text messages from her cell phone and coming home with her hair messy, make-up smeared and clothes wrinkled followed by pausing and looking away when you ask where she's been.
2. Sudden changes in her appearance
Although there are girls who suddenly become interested with clothes, if you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, e.g., a drastically different hair style or a sudden desire to lose weight and get in shape or a sudden need to buy new, sexier items of clothing, the reason behind it could be to create a new look and feel more attractive to the man she is seeing behind your back.
3. She shows loss of interest
When she is with you, does it appear her thoughts are on someone else? Does she avoid talking to about the future of your relationship. Does she keep forgetting important dates, or other things about your relationship, that she used to think were "important" to both of you? The reason for this lapse in memory could be due to the fact she already has that someone else on her mind. If she used to be needy of your attention but suddenly doesn't need your company, constantly discusses some guy she works with or met endlessly with admiration and begins avoiding you, your calls, your texts, etc... there's a good chance your girlfriend is cheating.
4. She checks out other guys in public
Cheating girlfriends sometimes tend to flirt excessively with other men. Girls will typically only check out other guys for fun or to test you; however, if your girl has never been a “flirter” before, and now she suddenly is on a constant basis, it may be a bad sign for your relationship. If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and keeping deep eye contact with them while you're right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she might actually be shopping around for another man.
5. Physical contact with you decreases
This one should be obvious. If a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else. So if your girlfriend begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact regularly without an obvious reason, this is one of the major signs that she wants to break up.
Monday, 16 March 2015
Too much makeup, talking
about bodily functions, and belittling the opposite sex are just a few of the
female habits that men find unattractive about women. We know that not all
women are like this, but when we meet them, boy do we know about it. Here are
seven things men find unattractive in a woman:
Being too drunk
We all love a girl who knows how to have a good time but when she's had such a good time that she's slumped over a bar with her knickers tucked into her skirt and toilet paper trailing from her shoe, it's not attractive and it doesn't make us want to walk over and kiss you in a "hands off folks – she's mine" kind of manner.
Being too drunk
We all love a girl who knows how to have a good time but when she's had such a good time that she's slumped over a bar with her knickers tucked into her skirt and toilet paper trailing from her shoe, it's not attractive and it doesn't make us want to walk over and kiss you in a "hands off folks – she's mine" kind of manner.
You ladies also have the tendency to speak so loud that you drown the
music out in a loud bar when you're drunk. There's nothing wrong with getting
merry, but when everyone starts looking at us because we're with "that
drunk woman" who is putting her skirt over her head and laughing
hysterically, it's embarrassing.
Talking about bodily functions
Yes, we know we agreed not to keep secrets from each other but can we skip that rule on this occasion? The day we realised that women do ‘number twos' was the day our world came crashing down, bringing all our sexual fantasies down with it. When you're spending a long time in the bathroom, we like to think that it's because you're refreshing your makeup and hair.
Talking about bodily functions
Yes, we know we agreed not to keep secrets from each other but can we skip that rule on this occasion? The day we realised that women do ‘number twos' was the day our world came crashing down, bringing all our sexual fantasies down with it. When you're spending a long time in the bathroom, we like to think that it's because you're refreshing your makeup and hair.
We could possibly – emphasis on the
word "possibly" – stretch our imagination to think that you may be
going for a tinkle, but we'd rather not. Please don't talk about any of your
bodily functions; leave topics about "the time of the month" and your
bowel movements for your girl friends.
Excessive body hair
We associate body hair with testosterone and testicles so seeing it in excessive amounts on a woman can be quite a turn off. We know it's painful to go through the rigmarole of waxing, plucking, epilating, and whatever other fancy hair removal systems you use (notice how we know all about this stuff because it's one of those things you nag about?) but at least keep it trimmed so it looks presentable.
Too much makeup
It's great to take pride in your appearance and that goes for clothes, hair, and makeup too. If this is a first date, wearing minimal makeup to enhance your looks is sexier than the overdone look, in our opinion. If we've been together for a while, we love you no matter how much makeup you wear, but we'd prefer it if you kept it to a minimum.
Purple, pink and green eye shadow with red lips? Someone pass my
sunglasses. We go in for a kiss and end up looking like a clown from the circus
and it isn't a good look for either of us. Ladies, if you insist on wearing
that much makeup, please refrain from snuggling up on our shoulders – that's my
favourite white shirt you just stained with your makeup.
Belittling us
We can just about cope with being called "snuggle bunny" and "baby boy" but when you belittle us to the point that we look stupid in front of other people, that's one step too far. Don't correct everything we do and say as if we don't know anything. Just because we do things differently to you, that doesn't mean that your way is right.
Swearing
We can forgive you the odd cheeky swear word, but when you're effing and jeffing like there's no tomorrow it can be a real turn-off for some men. We like our ladies with a touch of class and cramming your vocabulary with swear words doesn't quite ooze sophistication. What's wrong with using normal words to express your feelings?
Belittling us
We can just about cope with being called "snuggle bunny" and "baby boy" but when you belittle us to the point that we look stupid in front of other people, that's one step too far. Don't correct everything we do and say as if we don't know anything. Just because we do things differently to you, that doesn't mean that your way is right.
Swearing
We can forgive you the odd cheeky swear word, but when you're effing and jeffing like there's no tomorrow it can be a real turn-off for some men. We like our ladies with a touch of class and cramming your vocabulary with swear words doesn't quite ooze sophistication. What's wrong with using normal words to express your feelings?
Dictionaries and thesauruses are brimming with options – take your pick. We're
not suggesting that you express your feelings using sentences such as "I
am feeling ever so disenchanted" or "I'm awfully embittered by
this" but saying something along the lines of "I am flipping
angry" or "this is blimming frustrating" are much nicer
replacements for sentences packed with foul words.
Nagging
We've spent long enough silently moaning to ourselves about how annoying women are when they nag, that we're taking this opportunity to get it off our chests once and for all. We can't usually raise it in conversation you see, because no matter how delicately we approach the idea that you might possibly annoy us when you nag, we will be sentencing ourselves to even more endless nagging about pointing out that your nagging is getting too much.
Nagging
We've spent long enough silently moaning to ourselves about how annoying women are when they nag, that we're taking this opportunity to get it off our chests once and for all. We can't usually raise it in conversation you see, because no matter how delicately we approach the idea that you might possibly annoy us when you nag, we will be sentencing ourselves to even more endless nagging about pointing out that your nagging is getting too much.
You nag at us for leaving the toilet
seat up, you nag at us for "not caring", you nag at us for not shaving
for a few days... sheesh. Would you prefer us to go to the toilet sitting down?
Would you prefer us to be over emotional? And perfectly groomed? Then you'd nag
at us for not being manly enough. Three words: we can't win. Don't mess
with how nature intended men to be, and we won't mess with how nature intended
you to be. If you can't handle that, then maybe you should be dating women.
Saturday, 14 March 2015
Finding a good woman is not an easy task, especially in an
era where lots of women are master manipulators who abuse their female sexual
power and exploit male vulnerabilities. Still, there are a lot of good women
out there with traits that would make any guy happy.
Earlier we had carried an article where you learned about the types of women to avoid dating. Now, here's a list of the good types of women you should be dating:
1. The independent woman
The independent woman has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She's the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn't need a man in her life. An upside of dating this Alpha Female is knowing that she is confident, she won’t rely on you for everything and she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems.
2. The loyal woman
This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She's not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. Whether or not she's up for first prize in a beauty contest, this type of woman will lift you up when you need it, provide constructive criticism to make you a better man and be on your side no matter what.
3. The sweetheart
The sweetheart is a woman who's positive, compassionate and gentle. She's a genuine person who considers you in every situation. She's always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. This type of woman is pretty rare, but if you can find one, you've got a real treasure on your hands.
4. The low maintenance woman
The low maintenance woman is rational, not emotionally clingy, is comfortable doing things on her own and does not require constant reassurances. She really doesn't care about how much money you have -- she just likes you for you and not for what she can take from you. Unlike the high maintenance woman, she accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad ones. And she feels the same about you.
Earlier we had carried an article where you learned about the types of women to avoid dating. Now, here's a list of the good types of women you should be dating:
1. The independent woman
The independent woman has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She's the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn't need a man in her life. An upside of dating this Alpha Female is knowing that she is confident, she won’t rely on you for everything and she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems.
2. The loyal woman
This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She's not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. Whether or not she's up for first prize in a beauty contest, this type of woman will lift you up when you need it, provide constructive criticism to make you a better man and be on your side no matter what.
3. The sweetheart
The sweetheart is a woman who's positive, compassionate and gentle. She's a genuine person who considers you in every situation. She's always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. This type of woman is pretty rare, but if you can find one, you've got a real treasure on your hands.
4. The low maintenance woman
The low maintenance woman is rational, not emotionally clingy, is comfortable doing things on her own and does not require constant reassurances. She really doesn't care about how much money you have -- she just likes you for you and not for what she can take from you. Unlike the high maintenance woman, she accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad ones. And she feels the same about you.
Keeping a girl interested
is something that can be a challenge to a regular guy. No matter how
good-looking or funny you are, if you allow complacency to creep into your
relationship, she’ll dump you without the slightest hesitation as soon as
someone a little more interesting comes along.
So how can you keep your girl
interested in you and make sure she never leaves you?
Here are some suggestions.
1. Be spontaneous
One of the best ways to maintain your girl's interest is to be spontaneous. Being spontaneous is a requirement for maintaining a good relationship because once things become predictable, things become boring--and once things become boring, the relationship is essentially over. Planning things like date nights and fun activities that both of you enjoy will help to keep things fresh and interesting for your girlfriend while giving the two of you an opportunity to create a deeper bond.
2. Keep yourself up
It is vital that you maintain high standards of grooming. While many men think that they only need to look their best at the beginning of a relationship, what they fail to realize is that the person she was attracted to was that well-groomed individual she first met. For this reason, if you let your standards slip, she will lose interest in you.
3. Be a good kisser
Another important way to maintain her interest is to make sure you are a good kisser. The art of kissing is very important in any relationship. In fact, many women put a lot of stock in a man’s kissing ability and some even claim that a first kiss is a solid early indicator of how the relationship will turn out.
4. Have a distinct scent
Smelling good is an important way to keep a woman interested. Having a distinct scent can make her feel safe, happy or excited and can create a series of positive associations with you.
5. Don't be clingy
The moment a man starts getting too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills. Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement from women. Women want to feel like you need them... but only if you already have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals.
6. Let her talk
Just because you've been dating for a while doesn't mean that her thoughts and feelings should be a lower priority for you. Ask your girl interesting questions to keep her interested in conversations and let her know how important she is to you by listening to her and being there for her when she needs you.
7. Make her laugh
Laughter alone can make women fall in love with you. Do not be too serious and do not be afraid to throw a joke in your interactions with her. If you and the woman you are dating can laugh together, you'll be creating good memories that will linger in her mind forever.
8. Be mysterious
The mystery behind a man is one of the key elements to keeping a woman attracted to him. Offering a woman too much information upfront is the equivalent of revealing all your cards, without giving her the chance to develop an attraction for you. Keep some aspects of your life a secret and reveal yourself gradually as the two of you continue dating and become more comfortable with each other. This way you’ll always leave her wanting more.
1. Be spontaneous
One of the best ways to maintain your girl's interest is to be spontaneous. Being spontaneous is a requirement for maintaining a good relationship because once things become predictable, things become boring--and once things become boring, the relationship is essentially over. Planning things like date nights and fun activities that both of you enjoy will help to keep things fresh and interesting for your girlfriend while giving the two of you an opportunity to create a deeper bond.
2. Keep yourself up
It is vital that you maintain high standards of grooming. While many men think that they only need to look their best at the beginning of a relationship, what they fail to realize is that the person she was attracted to was that well-groomed individual she first met. For this reason, if you let your standards slip, she will lose interest in you.
3. Be a good kisser
Another important way to maintain her interest is to make sure you are a good kisser. The art of kissing is very important in any relationship. In fact, many women put a lot of stock in a man’s kissing ability and some even claim that a first kiss is a solid early indicator of how the relationship will turn out.
4. Have a distinct scent
Smelling good is an important way to keep a woman interested. Having a distinct scent can make her feel safe, happy or excited and can create a series of positive associations with you.
5. Don't be clingy
The moment a man starts getting too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills. Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement from women. Women want to feel like you need them... but only if you already have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals.
6. Let her talk
Just because you've been dating for a while doesn't mean that her thoughts and feelings should be a lower priority for you. Ask your girl interesting questions to keep her interested in conversations and let her know how important she is to you by listening to her and being there for her when she needs you.
7. Make her laugh
Laughter alone can make women fall in love with you. Do not be too serious and do not be afraid to throw a joke in your interactions with her. If you and the woman you are dating can laugh together, you'll be creating good memories that will linger in her mind forever.
8. Be mysterious
The mystery behind a man is one of the key elements to keeping a woman attracted to him. Offering a woman too much information upfront is the equivalent of revealing all your cards, without giving her the chance to develop an attraction for you. Keep some aspects of your life a secret and reveal yourself gradually as the two of you continue dating and become more comfortable with each other. This way you’ll always leave her wanting more.
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